“Complain to me when you’re talentless and homely.”
“I’m jealous of how thin you are!”
“My, my, with that red hair, you could break everyone’s heart in this room.”
“Woooo!!I just got my royalty check and oh my god! Kelly, can you edit half of my next book for free?”
“I do love a good story… however I’ll just keep the memory of how insanely beautiful you are with me to sleep:)”
GUESS WHAT?!!!!! I am writing my own books, juggling staying at home with my children, being a good wife, running this web site, collaborating with another author on a book, and making sure there’s food on the goddamn table.
This is fun?
This is productive?
I’ve worked so goddamn hard on this book – on making it a really, really good book that I’m proud of.
The other “authors” don’t consider me a peer because of my fucking appearance. (As you can already tell, I’m going to swear a lot. Be advised.) What do you want me to do, put a bag over my head? This is my face. I won’t apologize for being a woman.
I’ve never felt more underestimated, undervalued, or disappointed in my life. Do you want to know how many times I have been asked to “sex chat?” Or if I’m “happily married?” Rather than asking me about my writing or anything else.
Oh, and while I’m here, I need to address this.
What gives?! I asked you guys nicely if you would share a link from Underground Book Reviews’s Facebook page for me, as I was up for being reviewed by them, as I had made Pitch Perfect Finalist.
BUT ONLY ONE PERSON DID.
So, guess what happened?
A book about quiche won and, yeah, I am sort of crushed. A BOOK ABOUT QUICHE RECIPES WON AND GOT A THOROUGH, WELL-PROMOTED REVIEW. And me? Well, I’m still here. Plugging along. Going back to the drawing board.
Melissa and I have both come down with a cold / flu / plague thing, so we’ve been MIA recently. We will be MIA for a little longer as we figure out the new schedule – the themes are still going to happen, they just may happen after the holidays in order for them to work.
As of right now, we are pushing back publishing to a later date. I will put up another editor’s letter once I figure out what that date is.
Another funny note that I might mention here – half of you are friends with me on Facebook and don’t even realize that I’m the one you email with your submissions – that I’m the one working tirelessly to be a platform for YOUR writing. I created this magazine to give a voice to those who were talented and deserved to be heard.
Most other literary magazines / journals have a minimum response time of three to four months – please begin to expect the same from us. ESPECIALLY if I’ve told you we’ve accepted your work.
I’m the friend who listens to everyone else vent, is there as a shoulder to cry on for them, would do anything for them, but never receives it in return.
My throat is swollen and it’s painful to swallow. I’m going to bed.
I truly cherish the community that I’ve been able to foster here – but, sometimes, it’s hard to be everything to everyone while my own work is collecting dust in the corner. And, I’m still sick.
PS: I’ve mailed off everyone’s Pushcart Noms.
You know who I am.
8 Replies to “Chin Up! You Should Just be Happy You’ve Made it THIS Far! – Editor in Chief – Kelly Fitzharris Coody”
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Hi – Editor in Chief. You haven’t published me [best say that first up] but I sure as
hell know what you’re on about. So many writers/poets are clueless regarding the
the ‘editing’ process, time spent & lost, the cost… [the self goes on hold]! Takes
guts + know-how + devotion to manage a magazine. Look after you & yours. Take
some quiet time – you have earned that! Right. AND, ‘value you’ first. I’ve been a
founding + publishing editor work-horse for 40 plus years & I understand the
stress. Get well & have a calm Christmas.
Stefanie Bennett [Australia]
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We all appreciate all you do and wish you only the best
You might have heard this a thousand times, but I’m going to say it again. YOU ARE VALUABLE! Don’t ever doubt it. You have given many of us (including me) a chance when no one else did. You have no idea what that means. Please, please, please don’t give up on us. We cherish you and Melissa (and the rest of the team… if they are still there) more than you know, and we need you. I’m sorry to hear that your life isn’t easy and that your work isn’t as appreciated as it should be. That is a shame.
As for those who don’t understand that you do this whole SLM thing for them more than you do it for yourself, screw them and their lack of patience.
Keep your head up.
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I second this – thank you both for the work you do on this site! It’s so appreciated!
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I hope you are feeling better soon. I’m sorry for all the bullshit you’re dealing with. You are too valuable for it.
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Thank you so much for saying that – shit, it’s the nicest thing anyone’s said to me in a long, long time. 🙂
That makes me sad. Here is to life looking up and being appreciated.